The Long Arc Theory
When I was 19 and reading as much spiritual philosophy as I could find, I came up with the Theory of the Long Arc.
How to Free a Memory
Can the personified narrator of your life ever be trusted? It’s better not to kid yourself.
The Erotic Blueprint Types™
From love languages to ancient astrology, we have many frameworks to use as tools for self exploration.
More Spun than the Disco Ball
This is what our youth is all about. We try on the multitude of characters within us.
Freak in the Sheets
Humans have been indulging in kinky behavior since the first caveman, well, caved to a freaky impulse.
A Guide to Post-Pandemic Dating
How will we define the “new normal” when we can return to the streets and strangers return to our sheets once more?
Good Guys of Los Angeles: Are You Good Enough?
If good men can use their discomfort to assess their character and commit to developing compassionate strength, they may truly become great.
The Pleasure Market: Invest in the Female Orgasm
If casual sex is the room, a female orgasm is the elephant.
Dating Someone with Anxiety
Understanding anxiety will make you a better friend, more supportive partner and compassionate ally to your favorite people when they’re dealing with it.
F*ckin’ with Familiarity: The Do’s and Don’ts of Friends with Benefits
When the phrase “I just got my negative test back” is the new “you up?” text, it’s clear that the vast landscape of hook up etiquette has changed. During a global health crisis, suddenly even casual sex isn’t so casual.